Tuesday, July 4, 2017

18 Signs that your partner has lost interest in your relationship. Must read.

When things aren’t going so well in a relationship, some couples tend to disregard them. They face the fact that they need to draw a line between determination and desperation. If a partner doesn’t want to care, you can’t make him too. If you began to wonder how you can make them worry so the relationship could work, you’ve now come to the stage where your partner doesn’t care about any of it.

Not everything is under your control and you have to accept that. It’s the way people feel and where they choose to put their care and time. It’s a bit harsh, but no one ever told you that life would be easy and if they did, they were lying.

New things you both should do together to bring back life to your relationship; we both look so good together; it could work between us if he did that if she said this… the list is huge. It’s harmful to you as an individual and you have to stop doing it.
There is absolutely no use losing yourself in the process of loving another. In that way, you may never regain yourself. It’s the same to them when you tell them how happy they make you and when you tell them they don’t.

They are too busy to give you time

Couples always provide each other enough time in a relationship to prove that they care and love each other.

They are indecisive

If they keep on playing the cat and mouse game, the time you give up, they are all into the relationship, when you call it quits, they will begin to think of going back together.

They make themselves the focus of attention

While you are making assured about your partner’s wants, desires, and such to be met accordingly, it eventually leaves no room for you and all the things that you are doing for their “me-world.’

They put the blame on you

Even if it is not actually your fault, your partner will always blame you for both of little and big things in your everyday life together.

They treat you arrogantly

There is nothing cool about handling other people below, so if your partner acts in such this way where they are using their high rank, charm or power just to bring you down in any way, then it is definite sight that they do not care enough to protect your feelings.

Being disrespectful to you

All of the things that are important and have value to you should be respected and cared for by those people around you too, but only those who deeply care about you. What can actually make you would make them happy as well.

They are not supportive

Support is a whole lot more that saying the same things that you are about to say, going to the same places as you date and hangout with the same group of people. Its roots should lie deeper than such unexceptional things.

They will treat you like an outsider

If you are a way ahead of your relationship and yet you still have not met their parents or gotten to know if they have any siblings and other personal things, just take it as a sign that they are not that serious about the relationship that you have.

They make you feel worthless.

Being with somebody who only sees the darkness of life is not good for you. Even if you have stopped believing in the greater good, they should still show you the optimistic side of things because that would make you feel better.

Their apologies do not mean anything

“Sorry” is just a word not until somebody will come along and will give a meaning to it. Your partner will commit the same things that they would later be sorry for, or will they?

They try to change you

You have actually stopped feeling yourself anymore every time that you are with them. If your partner really cares about you, they would not try to change you, as a matter of fact; they often do the opposite so that you will enjoy a healthy relationship.

All pleasure, no love

You will actually know when your partner literally stops caring about you and your relationships when they only engage themselves in the physical aspect and do not pay that much attention to your feelings, as well as the respect that you deserve from them
They begin to cheat on you

Loyalty is said to be in a relationship when you deeply care enough for that person, but if not, you can easily jump to the next one.

No efforts was made to protect you

Not protecting you or at least trying to do so would actually mean your partner will not fight for you and the relationship, once they lose interest in it.

They do not bother remembering what you say

When we really care about the person who is speaking, we earnestly listen to them. When we do not care, we are just hearing things out.

They make you cry more than often

When your partner hurts you and makes you cry then don’t bother to come and make sure that you are fine, could they be more careless and not serious about your relationship?

They have it all to themselves

Whether it is going out in a Saturday night or planning a trip with friends together, when your partner does not play much attention in into being with you and at least trying to keep the relationship with you, they will keep all of the good things for themselves and they will not bother to include you in any of it.

They have commitment issues

You have to realize that it wasn’t about you; it’s all about the other person wants. If your partner has fear of committing to a relationship, they will not really mind wherever the relationship is going.